Grant and Lincoln's invitation

[RJNorton]

Thank you, Linda. I am beginning to think it's at least possible the Grants made up their minds on this invitation earlier than books say. I am thinking Mary and Grant probably discussed the Ford's Theatre show during their carriage ride at some point. Then Grant returned to the Willard Hotel after the ride. Julia returned to the Willard from the Stantons' reception. I am wondering if they just might have had a little discussion regarding the invitation the night of the 13th (before they retired for the night).