Goodness, I certainly didn't expect or want you to delete anything or to keep quiet. "Vitriol" may have been stating the case too strongly, for which I apologize, but it did seem to me that poor Tad, who must have brought his parents a lot of comfort in a difficult time and whose loss was a terrible blow to his mother, was being made to bear the brunt of your (understandable) frustration with modern parenting styles and society in general.