Thanks John & Susan.
I am amazed by what you both have uncovered, and the twists and turns in the records (and sometimes misleading info that can detour your efforts). It seems to be a tedious and methodical search that I don't have the knowledge and patience for. I have a great respect for you both in your research efforts (as well as for several others on this forum), I know you run into many roadblocks, dead ends and frustrating situations. Hope to get the pleasure of meeting you both one day.
So in honor of all you who are good at genealogy, digging through old public and private records, this song about a confusing family situation is dedicated to you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYlJH81dSiw