The other day Bill R. posted, "Another story about Burnside. He was turned down at the altar when his bride to be answered the "do you take this man. . . ." with a resounding "NO" and waked out of the ceremony."
I decided to try to find out who the "no" bride was. I was able to find her name. It was Lottie Moon, who led quite an interesting life. She married James Clark after refusing Burnside.