(05-04-2015, 05:29 PM)Eva Elisabeth Wrote: Truth to be told I feel a bit frustrated as I tried to make the same points as Kees did but received opposition.
Toia, re. the "rumors that she offended MHL by bossing around her servants", please go here to the bottom of p. 157 and the top of the following page:
https://books.google.de/books?id=3XLTAAA...CA4Q6AEwAQ
I had posted that already yesterday, but this morning decided to withdraw.
Thanks Eva, yes...I do see your point!

I would find a mother-in-law like that impossible to live with too. I guess the only point I was trying to make is that I am not sure how a feud like that could snowball into a decision to alter/change burial plans.
But both Marys were spoiled and stubborn women. Maybe something unforgiveable was said or done that we aren't aware of.