Grant and Lincoln's invitation

[L Verge]

As you have probably read from some of the other threads, Kees, I am a defender of Mary Lincoln; and I think you have brought out some very valid points and questions. Who, besides Herndon and his modern acolyte Dr. Burlingame, contributed personal diatribes against the First Lady during her time in Washington? I have never checked, but Kate Chase is certainly one who comes to mind. What Cabinet wives voiced opinions? Mrs. Welles considered the First Lady a friend, and Mrs. Seward supposedly dined with her and Mr. Lincoln on at least one occasion. Did Washington socialites spread vicious gossip because of her supposed Confederate ties?

Mrs. Lincoln was also a woman ahead of her time in education, politics, and opinions -- traits that the good old boys on Capitol Hill did/do not generally appreciate in a female. IMO, men can be some of the worst gossipers and criticizers on earth. They just have a different way of doing it. Let's speculate.